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Jan. 8, 2024

Clues Your Relationship is Doomed

Reflecting on the past can often provide us with a clearer understanding of our present. 🎎 Take, for example, the story of Fiona Kong. She grew up in a home filled with constant conflict. She now struggles to form a relationship with him. Growing up in such an environment, Fiona…

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Jan. 7, 2024

How to Teach Kids Respect and Empathy

In a world where we're constantly surrounded by diverse beliefs, appearances, and experiences, it's crucial to remember that kindness should always be our default response. 🌏 Alan Jenkins, a renowned professional in the field of mental health, recently shared some insightful advice on how to foster these values in our…

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Jan. 6, 2024

The Needed Change in Capitol Riots

In the realm of social justice, there are a few changes that Alan Jenkins would like to see. 🏛️ One of the most pressing issues he highlights is the lack of accountability among politicians who participated in the events of January 6th at the Capitol. While many of the rioters…

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Jan. 5, 2024

The Truth About Work-Life Balance

In the grand tapestry of life, there are moments when work seeps into our personal space, leaving us with less time for ourselves and our loved ones. 🕰️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Life, in all its chaotic beauty, demands flexibility. It's a dance of adaptation, a constant ebb and flow of priorities. Setting ourselves…

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Jan. 4, 2024

How to Balance Work, Family, and Self-Care

In the whirlwind of life, Pritma Dhillon Chattha has found a unique way to maintain her sanity and mental health. She juggles many roles, but her secret weapon is time boxing. 📅 Pritma relies heavily on her calendar, a place where her professional and personal worlds collide. But what's most…

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Jan. 3, 2024

Building Your Identity as a Person of Color in Foster Care

Grace Yung Foster, a beacon in the community, is still on her journey of self-discovery and identity building. 🌱 She emphasizes the importance of immersing oneself in the community, particularly for people of color. 🌏 She encourages us to listen to the diverse experiences of others who share similar lived…

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Jan. 2, 2024

Addressing the Hidden Trauma in Adoption

In the eyes of Grace Yung Foster, an adoptive parent's role goes beyond providing a home and love. It's about understanding the silent battles that the child might be fighting. 🌸 The child may not know how to articulate their feelings of abandonment or separation, and they might not even…

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Jan. 1, 2024

The Hidden Struggle of Adoptees

Grace Yung Foster shares a powerful narrative about the pitfalls of adoption, particularly the Savior complex that society often imposes on adoptees. 🎭 She emphasizes that this complex forces adoptees to suppress their true feelings and experiences, compelling them to fit into societal expectations rather than being their authentic selves.…

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Dec. 31, 2023

This Book is My Message to You

As a mother and a woman of color, I've walked the tightrope of balancing professional and personal responsibilities, while also trying to uphold cultural traditions in a modern world. 🌏 "Cancel the Filter" is not just another self-help book. 📚 It's a journey into the heart of what it means…

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Dec. 30, 2023

Financial Freedom for Working Mothers of Color

In my book, "Cancel the Filter," I delve into the complexities of being a working mother of color. One of the key themes I explore is the concept of finances. 💰 How do we impart the value and understanding of money to our children? More importantly, how do we perceive…

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Dec. 29, 2023

The Journey Behind Cancel the Filter

Writing "Cancel the Filter" was a journey that took me back in time. I found myself sifting through years of journal entries, revisiting emotions and experiences from over a decade ago. It was like stepping into a time machine, reliving those moments all over again. The challenge wasn't just in…

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Dec. 28, 2023

The Best Tip to Raise Kind Kids

In the grand tapestry of life, my family is the thread that weaves it all together. 🎎 I count my blessings every day, and at the top of that list is the man I've been journeying through life with since high school. Together, we're raising two beautiful daughters, our little…

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Dec. 27, 2023

Feel Less Alone in Motherhood with Cancel the Filter

Ever had one of those days where you feel like you're the only one juggling the chaos of motherhood and work? 🍼👩‍💻 Well, let me tell you, you're not alone. I've been there, and I've got some stories that will make you laugh, cry, and most importantly, feel seen. In…

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Dec. 26, 2023

Addressing The Common Misconception of Pregnancy in the Workplace

In my book "Cancel the Filter," I delve into my personal journey of navigating the workplace while pregnant. 🤰 There's a prevailing misconception that performance is judged without full knowledge of the circumstances, and this isn't exclusive to pregnancy. Now, as a supervisor, I've adopted a more empathetic approach. 🌱…

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Dec. 25, 2023

This Country Is Built With A White Supremacist Foundation

I've been doing some thinking lately, and I've realized that there's a lot of misinformation out there about different groups. 🌏 Living in America, I've seen it firsthand. People often say, "Don't look at race," but as a woman of color, I can't help but notice the difference in how…

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Dec. 24, 2023

A Shocking Personal Story You Need to Know

I remember a time during my college days, when I was traveling with friends and my husband. We had decided to venture off the beaten path in Cabo, and found ourselves in a local restaurant that had been recommended to us. 🍽️ As we were enjoying our meal, a woman,…

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Dec. 23, 2023

The Secret to Healthy Coping Mechanisms

Navigating the labyrinth of life, we often stumble upon the discomfort of boundaries and the fallout that follows. 🌏 It's akin to indulging in an ice cream bar occasionally, harmless in moderation, but detrimental when it becomes a tub-a-day habit. 🍦 Similarly, a casual glass of wine to unwind after…

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Dec. 22, 2023

Tips to Cut Toxic People Out of Your Life

In life, we often find ourselves at crossroads, where we must make the tough decision to either hold on or let go. 🌿 Sometimes, it's about a person who, instead of adding value, brings more harm to our lives. We might find ourselves giving more than we receive, and it's…

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Dec. 21, 2023

Here's How to Master Boundaries

In my journey of writing "Cancel the Filter", I've had the privilege of hosting numerous guests on my podcast, "Color of Success". 🎙️ One topic that often surfaced was the concept of boundaries. I'm no expert, but I've learned a thing or two about setting boundaries from these conversations. 📚…

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Dec. 20, 2023

Do This to Build Your Community

Finding your tribe can feel like navigating a labyrinth. 🎋 But the key, I've found, is to start with what lights you up. 🏮 Whether it's a social media group or a local event, there's a community out there that shares your passion. Volunteering, striking up conversations, these are the…

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Dec. 19, 2023

Never Struggle with Life Balance Again

In the pursuit of harmony, I've discovered a few truths that I'd like to share with you. 🌸 Firstly, let's debunk the myth of perfect balance. It's an illusion, a facade that we're better off without. Life is a constant ebb and flow, and that's okay. One of the most…

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Dec. 18, 2023

The Golden Rule of Balancing Career and Family for Success

Life has a funny way of shifting our perspectives, doesn't it? 🎭 I never anticipated the profound impact that becoming a parent would have on my life and work. You see, when you have children, you quickly learn that life doesn't come with a manual. It's a lot like flying…

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Dec. 17, 2023

A Mother's Unconventional Approach to Raising Resilient Kids

In the grand scheme of life, we often find ourselves pondering what legacy we wish to leave behind. 🌏 A mother, a wife, a daughter, a friend - these are roles that define us, but they are not all that we are. We are also warriors, fighting battles unseen by…

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Dec. 16, 2023

The Inspiring Story of Priscilla Escueta

In the six seasons of the Color Success Podcast, we've had the privilege of hosting many remarkable guests. 🎙️ Yet, one stands out in particular - Priscilla Escueta. Priscilla, a dear friend and colleague, was diagnosed with multiple cancers. 🎗️ Her years-long battle was a testament to her strength and…

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