In matchmaking, each interaction teaches and connects. Cassindy Chao, an experienced matchmaker, finds her profession a journey of self-discovery. She approaches clients and stories with openness, letting go of judgments. Kindness, she learned, matters greatly - to others and to herself. 💖 Counteracting self-criticism with self-love, she sets a powerful…
A matchmaker's impact goes beyond setting up dates. 💘 Take the case of a controlling doctor who hesitated about house hunting with her partner. 🏡💼 As a matchmaker, I nudged her to take the leap, and now they're happily married. 💑💍 It's about guiding people to see beyond their blind…
Family, the cornerstone of our lives, often shapes your relationships without you noticing. In matchmaking, especially with Asian American clients, understanding family dynamics is crucial. Patterns, like anxiety from controlling parents, can transfer through generations, impacting relationships. Societal pressures may keep incompatible parents together, influencing children's views on relationships. Cassindy…
In the realm of love, checklists often dictate partner preferences. In the book Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love: Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success, Cassindy Chao explores guiding principles. Yet, rigid expectations pose challenges. Many seek a unicorn partner—high-earning and intellectually stimulating—forgetting compatibility. Being open is sometimes scary but crucial, unexpected dates…
In the dating world, first impressions matter. But what if you haven't dated in over 20 years? Enter the matchmaker, adept at understanding human connection and the importance of a first date. For example, bridging the gap between a career woman and an artistic man requires creativity and research. Instead…
Cassindy Chao talked a bit on the Color of Success podcast about how she wins her clients' trust. When clients enter my office, they carry expectations and barriers hindering connection. Building rapport isn't quick; it requires time, energy, and attentive listening. Remembering details, taking notes, and gradually uncovering insights define…
Matchmaking is more than just pairing two people; it's understanding each individual's puzzle. In a world of online dating, it's about easing first-date anxiety and fostering curiosity about the matchmaker's choice. It involves nudging clients out of comfort zones to embrace potential joy and laughter. In the end, matchmaking is…
Cassindy Chao spoke a bit about her transition from banking to matchmaking on The Color of Success podcast. 🏦 She was seen as a token hire and the pressure was immense. The misconception that Asians excel in numbers was hard to shake, despite her hating numbers. Transitioning into matchmaking was…
Becoming a matchmaker is a unique journey often overlooked. It diverges from traditional career paths and societal expectations. For Cassindy Chao, it began with a chance encounter at a college party, leading to a passion sparked by a blind date. 🥂🎉 Volunteering at the Asian Association Blind Date Semi-Formal, she…
Justin Phan, real estate specialist, told about how in the early stages of his career, he found himself grappling with the art of communication. 🎭 His natural inclination was to keep his thoughts and feelings to himself, a trait that his friends and spouse often pointed out. However, as he…
In the hustle of life, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. 🏮 Real estate specialist Justin Phan spoke about how he dealt with balancing his work-life. His days were filled with endless tasks, from communicating with tenants to scrutinizing deals, his work-life balance was virtually non-existent. 📊…
Justin Phan, real estate specialist, talked about his grandparents' journey from Vietnam to America, on the Colour of Success podcast, and how it epitomizes the American dream. Despite success back home, they had to sell everything due to the war, arriving in Houston with sheer determination. Initially working odd jobs,…
Growing up, the concept of hard work was the norm for me — In fact, it was a part of my daily life. My grandparents owned a family liquor store. My earliest memories are of breaking down cardboard boxes for my grandma, my payment being candies. This early exposure to…
Ever thought about diversifying your real estate portfolio? You see, owning a home is a great investment, but it's not the only way to make your money work for you. Here are some great options: RV lots and self-storage spaces. 🚐🔐🏢 RV lots, for instance, can yield a return of…
The decision to buy a property is as unique as the person making it. 🏠 When you're looking for a new home you should ask yourself these questions: Are you ready to commit to a place for at least five years? 🌳 Next, let's talk numbers. 💰 In Houston, for…
With real estate, emotions can often run high. 🏠 The uncertainty of the market can cause stress and anxiety. For one real estate agent, understanding this emotional landscape is a crucial part of his job. He's a numbers guy, analytical by nature, but he's learned to put himself in his…
Imagine a movie that brings you back to the good old days. A time when the entire family would gather around the television, sharing laughter, tears, and a collective experience. 🐯🎬 Tiger's Apprentice is that kind of movie. It's a beautiful blend of fun, family, and culture, with a dash…
Stepping into the recording booth for an audiobook is a journey into the unknown. 🎙️ It's a place where you're alone, yet not alone, enveloped in darkness, repeating lines until they echo in your mind. The challenge? Staying connected, not just to the character you're breathing life into, but also…
It's fascinating how the world of cinema can mirror our own realities, isn't it? 🎬 Sometimes, it's almost impossible to separate the psychologist from the movie enthusiast, especially when themes of grief, resilience, and love are so vividly portrayed on the silver screen. But have you ever wondered about the…
As the Lunar New Year approaches, marking the Year of the Dragon, let's delve into the fascinating world of the Chinese Zodiac. 🐉🧧🏮 Brandon Soo Hoo, who portrays Tom in Tiger's Apprentice, shares his personal connection with the Zodiac. Growing up, the Zodiac was an integral part of his life,…
There's something profoundly beautiful about the unspoken bond that exists in multigenerational relationships. Take Mrs. Lee and her grandson, from Tiger's Apprentice, for instance. Their connection is deep, natural, and palpable, a testament to the power of familial love and understanding. 🎎 This bond, often unspoken yet deeply felt, is…
In the heart of the family, there's always a character that resonates with us, and for one family, it was Mrs. Lee from Tiger's Apprentice. A role that was brought to life with such authenticity, it felt like she was part of our own family. 🎬👵🏻🎥 Tan, the actress behind…
Justin Phan is a first generation, Vietnamese American, Realtor, and Vice President of Myres Properties in Houston, TX. From childhood days, breaking down boxes for candy to managing thriving commercial properties, Justin's journey is one of resilience and success. He has served on multiple philanthropic boards focused on helping underserved…
