In this enlightening episode of the Color of Success podcast, host Dr. Stephanie J. Wong is joined by Satchel Stilwell, a Texas-based licensed professional counselor and supervisor. Stilwell, specializing in substance use disorders and broader mental health issues for clients aged 13 and older, shares his personal journey as a…
Navigating life's challenges can feel like facing Simon Cowell's scrutiny: pressure, expectations, fear of failure. 😬 But what if we embraced challenges with a different mindset, for William it was approaching an audition with no expectations? 🎭 Accepting failure as part of the journey, like a loss, and it was…
In the bustling mental health world, a curious trend emerges: individuals with depression symptoms thriving without identifying as depressed. 🧠 Testing this, Dr. Judith Joseph made a reel, expecting it to not get much traction but it got viral, resonating with millions. 📈 High-functioning depression strikes a chord, maybe reflecting…
In the current mental health crisis, we're seeing a concerning trend: difficulty processing trauma. 😔 Instead, we seek solace in distractions like social media, work, and consumption. 📱💼🛍️ Elders turn to alcohol, youth immerse in social media, risking harm to developing brains. 🍺👵🏽🧑🏽🦱 The impact remains unclear, but it's evident…
For Amy Yip, the news of embryo viability uncertainty stirs a whirlwind of emotions—loneliness, disappointment, societal pressures ingrained since childhood. 😔 She mentioned that as a Chinese woman, motherhood is ingrained in her identity, even though she resisted the stereotype. 🉐 Then coaching emerges as a ray of hope, skepticism…
In the corporate world, a trend emerges: companies offer egg freezing benefits. Giving more career choice and flexibility for women. 🥚💼 The goal? Retain talented women, aiding career growth and company success. 🌟 Maternity leave, as it currently stands, isn't exactly ideal. 🤷♀️ And once a woman becomes a mother,…
Amy Yip talked on the Color of Success podcast about how her life took a 360 twist? 🔄 Once trapped in corporate life, she took a leap. In January 2020, she and her husband sold everything, left jobs and flew to Ghana for voluntary work. ✈️🌍 COVID extended their stay…
On the Color of Success podcast, Tan Kheng Hua talked a bit about how it was stepping into Mrs. Lee's shoes. 👠 Motherly roles resonate deeply with me, and portraying this character felt natural. 🌸 While media often portrays parenting as a struggle, my experience has been joyous. 🌟 The…
There's something magical about watching a movie as a family, right? 🎥👨👩👧👦 Watching Tiger's Apprentice brings back that old-fashioned viewing style, inviting everyone to gather, laugh, cry, and share the story.🐯💫 And there's even potential for a sequel, keeping storytelling alive. 📽️✨ Watch Tiger's Apprentice for more than just a…
Creating a protected space, not just safe, starts with self-compassion. 🌸 It's about holding ourselves warmly, even when uneasy. Kindness guides us to authenticity. 🎍 Separation between self and others is allowed, fostering compassion for all. 🏮 With compassion for both, setting boundaries becomes clear and kind—a truly protected space.…
Juliane's Taylor Shore book, Reprogramming Minds, approach to rewiring your brains is a game changer! 📚 It delves into neurobiology and setting boundaries, unveiling the mentalization neural network's power. 🧠 It deciphers our actions through metaphors, not words, mostly from our heart and gut. What if we listen more to…
Why watch Tiger's Apprentice? Dive in! 🐯🎬 Whether you crave laughs or heartwarming family tales, this movie delivers. It's not just about fun and family—it beautifully embraces API culture. 🏮🎎 And the visuals? Kick-ass! Each detail demands appreciation. For a film blending fun, family, culture, and stunning visuals, Tiger's Apprentice…
In the calm of a recording booth, a unique magic unfolds. 🎙️✨ Here, voice meets character in serene harmony. 🗣️💫 For Tan Kheng Hua solitude is both work necessity and mental sanctuary, showcasing the creative power of introversion. 🎭🤫 Let's appreciate introverts, finding strength in silence, reminding us mental health…
Brandon's portrayal of Tom in The Tiger's Apprentice wasn't just acting; it was a transformative journey of personal growth. 🎭✨ Immersed in the role for 3 years, he evolved alongside Tom, forming deep connections with the creative team. 👥🎨 The experience blurred the lines between actor and character, resulting in…
In matchmaking, each interaction teaches and connects. Cassindy Chao, an experienced matchmaker, finds her profession a journey of self-discovery. She approaches clients and stories with openness, letting go of judgments. Kindness, she learned, matters greatly - to others and to herself. 💖 Counteracting self-criticism with self-love, she sets a powerful…
A matchmaker's impact goes beyond setting up dates. 💘 Take the case of a controlling doctor who hesitated about house hunting with her partner. 🏡💼 As a matchmaker, I nudged her to take the leap, and now they're happily married. 💑💍 It's about guiding people to see beyond their blind…
Family, the cornerstone of our lives, often shapes your relationships without you noticing. In matchmaking, especially with Asian American clients, understanding family dynamics is crucial. Patterns, like anxiety from controlling parents, can transfer through generations, impacting relationships. Societal pressures may keep incompatible parents together, influencing children's views on relationships. Cassindy…
In the realm of love, checklists often dictate partner preferences. In the book Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love: Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success, Cassindy Chao explores guiding principles. Yet, rigid expectations pose challenges. Many seek a unicorn partner—high-earning and intellectually stimulating—forgetting compatibility. Being open is sometimes scary but crucial, unexpected dates…
In the dating world, first impressions matter. But what if you haven't dated in over 20 years? Enter the matchmaker, adept at understanding human connection and the importance of a first date. For example, bridging the gap between a career woman and an artistic man requires creativity and research. Instead…
Cassindy Chao talked a bit on the Color of Success podcast about how she wins her clients' trust. When clients enter my office, they carry expectations and barriers hindering connection. Building rapport isn't quick; it requires time, energy, and attentive listening. Remembering details, taking notes, and gradually uncovering insights define…
Matchmaking is more than just pairing two people; it's understanding each individual's puzzle. In a world of online dating, it's about easing first-date anxiety and fostering curiosity about the matchmaker's choice. It involves nudging clients out of comfort zones to embrace potential joy and laughter. In the end, matchmaking is…
Cassindy Chao spoke a bit about her transition from banking to matchmaking on The Color of Success podcast. 🏦 She was seen as a token hire and the pressure was immense. The misconception that Asians excel in numbers was hard to shake, despite her hating numbers. Transitioning into matchmaking was…
Becoming a matchmaker is a unique journey often overlooked. It diverges from traditional career paths and societal expectations. For Cassindy Chao, it began with a chance encounter at a college party, leading to a passion sparked by a blind date. 🥂🎉 Volunteering at the Asian Association Blind Date Semi-Formal, she…
Justin Phan, real estate specialist, told about how in the early stages of his career, he found himself grappling with the art of communication. 🎭 His natural inclination was to keep his thoughts and feelings to himself, a trait that his friends and spouse often pointed out. However, as he…
