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April 10, 2024

Doing This Will Change Your Life

Ever considered a "Life Brief"? πŸ“ It's a creative brief for your life! 🌟 Condense your desires into five powerful statements, each resonating deeply! πŸ’­ These phrases become tattoos on your mind and heart. πŸ’– When confused, refer to your brief. It's your lifeβ€”make it count! πŸ”₯ ◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️ Get Access…

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April 9, 2024

How I Deal With Stressful Situations

Self-care is a journey that can be as exhausting as it is rewarding. πŸ’ͺ Warm water, whether in tea or a bath, offers universal comfort. πŸ΅πŸ› Alone time is crucial for recovery and engagement. 🌿 Blast music in the shower to reclaim space. 🎢🚿 It's all part of the fun.…

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April 9, 2024

Why You Should Free Write

On my podcast, Color of Success, Bonnie Wan talked about one of the hardest moments of her life. She mentioned that in her darkest hour, despite having a seemingly perfect life, she felt unfulfilled. πŸ˜” Taking a step back, she began free writing, seeking clarity. πŸ“ Surprisingly, she discovered that…

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April 7, 2024

How I Came From Underestimated to Empowered

In my tumultuous childhood, each new social worker became "Miss Perkins," πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It was my way of using humor to mask the truth. πŸ˜„ Despite the labels imposed, I knew I was truly intelligent. 🧠 In the '60s, this defiance was bold, but I held onto it, shaping the person…

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April 6, 2024

How I Refused To Quit Education

I remember when I was in a Cleveland welfare office, out of foster care, facing a bleak future. πŸ’” Despite failing an intelligence test due to distraction, I excelled academically. πŸ“šπŸ’ͺ Refusing to accept labels, I graduated top of my class, defying odds and teaching us that success transcends tests…

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April 5, 2024

How Education Saved My Life

Cracking open a book unveils magic, revealing a world beyond familiar streets. πŸ“–βœ¨ For me, a girl from East Cleveland, books were a revelation, offering a passport to the unknown. πŸŒπŸ” They fueled a thirst for learning, leading to new opportunities. πŸ“šπŸ’‘ Under a visionary black principal, education became a…

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April 4, 2024

How a Library Changed My Life

When I was 14 years old, a visit to the main library changed my life. πŸ“š School felt dull until then. πŸ˜” The library opened a new world, igniting my self-belief. πŸ”₯ I want to share my story so it can help young girls about mental health awareness, breaking stereotypes,…

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April 3, 2024

Mindset That Saved Me From Foster Care

Life's journey often leads through unexpected paths. πŸ›€οΈ For my sister and me, it was Cleveland, feeling like an orphanage, then foster care. 🏠 These challenges defined us. πŸ’ͺ I chose to reject imposed labels, urging my sister to do the same. 🚫 Our response defines us, not our circumstances.…

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April 3, 2024

Bonnie Wan: Blueprint for No Regrets- Reinventing What Success in Work and Life Means

In this inspiring episode of the Color of Success Podcast, Dr. Stephanie J. Wong invites the illustrious Bonnie Wan to share her transformative journey from a life that looked perfect on paper to one of genuine fulfillment and no regrets living. Through a candid discussion, they explore the intersection of…

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April 2, 2024

How I Dealt With Family Mental Illness

Mental health awareness and breaking stereotypes are deeply rooted in my family. 🧠🌱 Among 10, with tragic losses and alcoholism, my sister and I broke the cycle. πŸ”„ Our bond was solace, asking, "Are you crazy yet?" πŸ€ͺ Checking in on each other helps us break the cycle. β˜‘οΈ ◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️…

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April 1, 2024

How I Almost Died at Birth

Born in a 🚽 due to my mother's affair, hidden as a tumor. πŸ‘Ά My stepsister found me, a newborn, discarded. πŸ•΅οΈβ€β™€οΈ Years later, my mother fabricated a story of a hospital birth. πŸ₯ It took time to confront the truth. ⏳ Our beginnings don't define us, they shape us.…

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April 1, 2024

Eleanor Tomczyk: Finding Resilience and Identity Beyond Borders

Welcome to a special episode of the Color of Success Podcast! Today, we had the pleasure of hosting the incredible Eleanor Tomczyk, a memoirist, blogger, and speaker whose journey takes us through the realms of identity, resilience, and the search for belonging in a complex world. Here's a brief overview…

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March 31, 2024

Connection Between Keyboard Warriors and Suicide Rate

🌐 In the midst of a world that's become increasingly digital, we're seeing a startling trend emerge: πŸ˜” 60% of teen girls report persistent sadness; a 46% rise in suicide rates among 11 to 17-year-olds. πŸ“ˆ This rise, while certainly exacerbated by the pandemic, was already on an upward trajectory.…

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March 30, 2024

When Does Body Shaming Start?

🩰 Here's the story of a young girl who loves ballet. 🌟 Despite her natural talent, she doesn't fit the stereotypical petite image. 😞 Criticized for her body at just 8, it's a heartbreaking reality. πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§ But this isn't just about kids; women face body image issues too. πŸ›‘ We…

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March 29, 2024

How to Be an Example for Your Daughter

πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§ The way a man treats his wife is a powerful testament to his values. πŸ’– It's not just about setting an example for the daughter, showing her the kind of treatment she should expect and accept. 🌸 πŸ‘¦ It's also about teaching the son, modeling for him the right…

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March 28, 2024

Relational Equity Explained in 60 Seconds

🏦 Life is like a bank account: deposit words, actions, and emotions. 🀝 It's relational equity. Speak kindly and you make a deposit; speak harshly a withdraw. ⚠️ It's important to care for the account to avoid overdrafting - empty accounts hold no value. 🌱 Build relational equity for mutual…

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March 28, 2024

Eleanor Tomczyk: Finding Resilience and Identity Beyond Borders

Welcome to a special episode of the Color of Success Podcast! Today, we had the pleasure of hosting the incredible Eleanor Tomczyk, a memoirist, blogger, and speaker whose journey takes us through the realms of identity, resilience, and the search for belonging in a complex world. Here's a brief overview…

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March 27, 2024

You're Neglecting Your Daughter and Didn't Even Notice

πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘§ In fatherhood, a crucial conversation is often ignored: girls not told they're loved, worthy, smart, strong. 🀫 Female strength is often overlooked, leading to silence instead of empowerment. ❌ Mistakes met with harshness can harm bonds. ⏰ Now is the time to speak value, build bridges, nurture relationships. πŸ’¬β€¦

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March 26, 2024

How Social Media Affects Young Girls

πŸ‘©πŸ‘§ Women and girls are bombarded with messages that shape their perceptions and beliefs, starting from a young age. πŸ“š These curated narratives become apparent as they form their identity and purpose, evolving throughout life. πŸ“± Social media exacerbates this, presenting idealized versions of life that overlook realities. πŸ˜” Constant…

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March 25, 2024

At What Age Do Girls Feel Valued?

In adolescence, identity formation is a crucial yet challenging journey for teenagers. πŸ‘§πŸ‘¦ Surprisingly, many young women I work with express feeling valued much later in life, often in their early to mid-twenties, contrary to expectations of feeling valued at a younger age. 🌟 This highlights the significance of nurturing…

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March 24, 2024

How Addictions Can Screw Your Life

Addiction, encompassing substances, habits, and people, is a complex cycle of filling voids. πŸ”„ Conquering one often leads to another, a cycle of transference. πŸ”„ The fear of solitude without addiction can be daunting, but it's where we find strength and resilience. πŸ’ͺ In silence, we confront demons and embrace…

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March 23, 2024

The Biggest Challenge in My Career

In the journey of life, we often encounter challenges that test our resilience and strength, including silent battles like substance abuse. πŸ’ͺ Substance, whether marijuana or others, can offer solace in loneliness or tragedy, yet it transforms into a harmful dependency hindering personal growth, intimacy, and self-reflection. 🚫 It's okay…

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March 22, 2024

How I Choose My Collabs

For Stephanie, she had been in numerous plays and projects, each one a unique experience. 🎭 One such project was with an acapella group, a vibrant ensemble of young professionals, each with their own unique talents. 🎀 Choosing which projects to be a part of isn't always a straightforward process.…

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March 21, 2024

The Biggest Barrier in My Life

In life's journey, we often become our harshest critics, especially influenced by cultural expectations and the pursuit of perfection. πŸšΆβ€β™‚οΈ Yet, this relentless pursuit may mask fear and insecurity. πŸ˜” What if we reframed our inner critic as a superpower? πŸ’ͺ While recognizing areas for improvement is valuable, it shouldn't…

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