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April 2, 2024

How I Dealt With Family Mental Illness

Mental health awareness and breaking stereotypes are deeply rooted in my family. 🧠🌱 Among 10, with tragic losses and alcoholism, my sister and I broke the cycle. 🔄 Our bond was solace, asking, "Are you crazy yet?" 🤪 Checking in on each other helps us break the cycle. ☑️ ◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️◽️…

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April 1, 2024

How I Almost Died at Birth

Born in a 🚽 due to my mother's affair, hidden as a tumor. 👶 My stepsister found me, a newborn, discarded. 🕵️‍♀️ Years later, my mother fabricated a story of a hospital birth. 🏥 It took time to confront the truth. ⏳ Our beginnings don't define us, they shape us.…

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April 1, 2024

Eleanor Tomczyk: Finding Resilience and Identity Beyond Borders

Welcome to a special episode of the Color of Success Podcast! Today, we had the pleasure of hosting the incredible Eleanor Tomczyk, a memoirist, blogger, and speaker whose journey takes us through the realms of identity, resilience, and the search for belonging in a complex world. Here's a brief overview…

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March 31, 2024

Connection Between Keyboard Warriors and Suicide Rate

🌐 In the midst of a world that's become increasingly digital, we're seeing a startling trend emerge: 😔 60% of teen girls report persistent sadness; a 46% rise in suicide rates among 11 to 17-year-olds. 📈 This rise, while certainly exacerbated by the pandemic, was already on an upward trajectory.…

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March 30, 2024

When Does Body Shaming Start?

🩰 Here's the story of a young girl who loves ballet. 🌟 Despite her natural talent, she doesn't fit the stereotypical petite image. 😞 Criticized for her body at just 8, it's a heartbreaking reality. 👩‍👧 But this isn't just about kids; women face body image issues too. 🛑 We…

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March 29, 2024

How to Be an Example for Your Daughter

👨‍👩‍👧 The way a man treats his wife is a powerful testament to his values. 💖 It's not just about setting an example for the daughter, showing her the kind of treatment she should expect and accept. 🌸 👦 It's also about teaching the son, modeling for him the right…

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March 28, 2024

Relational Equity Explained in 60 Seconds

🏦 Life is like a bank account: deposit words, actions, and emotions. 🤝 It's relational equity. Speak kindly and you make a deposit; speak harshly a withdraw. ⚠️ It's important to care for the account to avoid overdrafting - empty accounts hold no value. 🌱 Build relational equity for mutual…

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March 28, 2024

Eleanor Tomczyk: Finding Resilience and Identity Beyond Borders

Welcome to a special episode of the Color of Success Podcast! Today, we had the pleasure of hosting the incredible Eleanor Tomczyk, a memoirist, blogger, and speaker whose journey takes us through the realms of identity, resilience, and the search for belonging in a complex world. Here's a brief overview…

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March 27, 2024

You're Neglecting Your Daughter and Didn't Even Notice

👨‍👧‍👧 In fatherhood, a crucial conversation is often ignored: girls not told they're loved, worthy, smart, strong. 🤫 Female strength is often overlooked, leading to silence instead of empowerment. ❌ Mistakes met with harshness can harm bonds. ⏰ Now is the time to speak value, build bridges, nurture relationships. 💬…

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March 26, 2024

How Social Media Affects Young Girls

👩👧 Women and girls are bombarded with messages that shape their perceptions and beliefs, starting from a young age. 📚 These curated narratives become apparent as they form their identity and purpose, evolving throughout life. 📱 Social media exacerbates this, presenting idealized versions of life that overlook realities. 😔 Constant…

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March 25, 2024

At What Age Do Girls Feel Valued?

In adolescence, identity formation is a crucial yet challenging journey for teenagers. 👧👦 Surprisingly, many young women I work with express feeling valued much later in life, often in their early to mid-twenties, contrary to expectations of feeling valued at a younger age. 🌟 This highlights the significance of nurturing…

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March 24, 2024

How Addictions Can Screw Your Life

Addiction, encompassing substances, habits, and people, is a complex cycle of filling voids. 🔄 Conquering one often leads to another, a cycle of transference. 🔄 The fear of solitude without addiction can be daunting, but it's where we find strength and resilience. 💪 In silence, we confront demons and embrace…

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March 23, 2024

The Biggest Challenge in My Career

In the journey of life, we often encounter challenges that test our resilience and strength, including silent battles like substance abuse. 💪 Substance, whether marijuana or others, can offer solace in loneliness or tragedy, yet it transforms into a harmful dependency hindering personal growth, intimacy, and self-reflection. 🚫 It's okay…

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March 22, 2024

How I Choose My Collabs

For Stephanie, she had been in numerous plays and projects, each one a unique experience. 🎭 One such project was with an acapella group, a vibrant ensemble of young professionals, each with their own unique talents. 🎤 Choosing which projects to be a part of isn't always a straightforward process.…

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March 21, 2024

The Biggest Barrier in My Life

In life's journey, we often become our harshest critics, especially influenced by cultural expectations and the pursuit of perfection. 🚶‍♂️ Yet, this relentless pursuit may mask fear and insecurity. 😔 What if we reframed our inner critic as a superpower? 💪 While recognizing areas for improvement is valuable, it shouldn't…

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March 20, 2024

How I Feel Portraying as an Asian Actress

Recently cast as Eliza on tour, Stephanie initially felt limited to explicitly Asian roles. 🎭 Now, she embraces the responsibility to represent her community. 💪 Performing in Toronto, with its large Asian population, she's moved by the impact her portrayal has. 🌟 She's determined to excel, not just for herself…

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March 19, 2024

How I Found My Path to Success

In the midst of penning his autobiography, William reflects on his journey, a tale of resilience and reinvention. 📚 He was living the dream, basking in the limelight of the entertainment industry. 🌟 But as the years rolled by, the opportunities dwindled, and he found himself at a crossroads. and…

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March 19, 2024

Satchel Stillwell: A Father & Clinician’s Perspective on Helping Our Daughters Feel Valued

In this enlightening episode of the Color of Success podcast, host Dr. Stephanie J. Wong is joined by Satchel Stilwell, a Texas-based licensed professional counselor and supervisor. Stilwell, specializing in substance use disorders and broader mental health issues for clients aged 13 and older, shares his personal journey as a…

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March 18, 2024

Mindset I've Learned at The Voice

Navigating life's challenges can feel like facing Simon Cowell's scrutiny: pressure, expectations, fear of failure. 😬 But what if we embraced challenges with a different mindset, for William it was approaching an audition with no expectations? 🎭 Accepting failure as part of the journey, like a loss, and it was…

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March 17, 2024

The Duality of High-Functioning Depression

In the bustling mental health world, a curious trend emerges: individuals with depression symptoms thriving without identifying as depressed. 🧠 Testing this, Dr. Judith Joseph made a reel, expecting it to not get much traction but it got viral, resonating with millions. 📈 High-functioning depression strikes a chord, maybe reflecting…

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March 16, 2024

Are You Ignoring Your Trauma?

In the current mental health crisis, we're seeing a concerning trend: difficulty processing trauma. 😔 Instead, we seek solace in distractions like social media, work, and consumption. 📱💼🛍️ Elders turn to alcohol, youth immerse in social media, risking harm to developing brains. 🍺👵🏽🧑🏽‍🦱 The impact remains unclear, but it's evident…

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March 15, 2024

What I Learned With Coaching

For Amy Yip, the news of embryo viability uncertainty stirs a whirlwind of emotions—loneliness, disappointment, societal pressures ingrained since childhood. 😔 She mentioned that as a Chinese woman, motherhood is ingrained in her identity, even though she resisted the stereotype. 🉐 Then coaching emerges as a ray of hope, skepticism…

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March 14, 2024

Why Big Companies Encourages Egg Freezing

In the corporate world, a trend emerges: companies offer egg freezing benefits. Giving more career choice and flexibility for women. 🥚💼 The goal? Retain talented women, aiding career growth and company success. 🌟 Maternity leave, as it currently stands, isn't exactly ideal. 🤷‍♀️ And once a woman becomes a mother,…

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March 13, 2024

How Leaving My Job Changed My Life

Amy Yip talked on the Color of Success podcast about how her life took a 360 twist? 🔄 Once trapped in corporate life, she took a leap. In January 2020, she and her husband sold everything, left jobs and flew to Ghana for voluntary work. ✈️🌍 COVID extended their stay…

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