Videos

Dec. 29, 2023

The Journey Behind Cancel the Filter

Writing "Cancel the Filter" was a journey that took me back in time. I found myself sifting through years of journal entries, revisiting emotions and experiences from over a decade ago. It was like stepping into a time machine, reliving those moments all over again. The challenge wasn't just in…

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Dec. 28, 2023

The Best Tip to Raise Kind Kids

In the grand tapestry of life, my family is the thread that weaves it all together. 🎎 I count my blessings every day, and at the top of that list is the man I've been journeying through life with since high school. Together, we're raising two beautiful daughters, our little…

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Dec. 27, 2023

Feel Less Alone in Motherhood with Cancel the Filter

Ever had one of those days where you feel like you're the only one juggling the chaos of motherhood and work? 🍼👩‍💻 Well, let me tell you, you're not alone. I've been there, and I've got some stories that will make you laugh, cry, and most importantly, feel seen. In…

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Dec. 26, 2023

Addressing The Common Misconception of Pregnancy in the Workplace

In my book "Cancel the Filter," I delve into my personal journey of navigating the workplace while pregnant. 🤰 There's a prevailing misconception that performance is judged without full knowledge of the circumstances, and this isn't exclusive to pregnancy. Now, as a supervisor, I've adopted a more empathetic approach. 🌱…

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Dec. 25, 2023

This Country Is Built With A White Supremacist Foundation

I've been doing some thinking lately, and I've realized that there's a lot of misinformation out there about different groups. 🌏 Living in America, I've seen it firsthand. People often say, "Don't look at race," but as a woman of color, I can't help but notice the difference in how…

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Dec. 24, 2023

A Shocking Personal Story You Need to Know

I remember a time during my college days, when I was traveling with friends and my husband. We had decided to venture off the beaten path in Cabo, and found ourselves in a local restaurant that had been recommended to us. 🍽️ As we were enjoying our meal, a woman,…

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Dec. 23, 2023

The Secret to Healthy Coping Mechanisms

Navigating the labyrinth of life, we often stumble upon the discomfort of boundaries and the fallout that follows. 🌏 It's akin to indulging in an ice cream bar occasionally, harmless in moderation, but detrimental when it becomes a tub-a-day habit. 🍦 Similarly, a casual glass of wine to unwind after…

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Dec. 22, 2023

Tips to Cut Toxic People Out of Your Life

In life, we often find ourselves at crossroads, where we must make the tough decision to either hold on or let go. 🌿 Sometimes, it's about a person who, instead of adding value, brings more harm to our lives. We might find ourselves giving more than we receive, and it's…

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Dec. 21, 2023

Here's How to Master Boundaries

In my journey of writing "Cancel the Filter", I've had the privilege of hosting numerous guests on my podcast, "Color of Success". 🎙️ One topic that often surfaced was the concept of boundaries. I'm no expert, but I've learned a thing or two about setting boundaries from these conversations. 📚…

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Dec. 20, 2023

Do This to Build Your Community

Finding your tribe can feel like navigating a labyrinth. 🎋 But the key, I've found, is to start with what lights you up. 🏮 Whether it's a social media group or a local event, there's a community out there that shares your passion. Volunteering, striking up conversations, these are the…

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Dec. 19, 2023

Never Struggle with Life Balance Again

In the pursuit of harmony, I've discovered a few truths that I'd like to share with you. 🌸 Firstly, let's debunk the myth of perfect balance. It's an illusion, a facade that we're better off without. Life is a constant ebb and flow, and that's okay. One of the most…

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Dec. 18, 2023

The Golden Rule of Balancing Career and Family for Success

Life has a funny way of shifting our perspectives, doesn't it? 🎭 I never anticipated the profound impact that becoming a parent would have on my life and work. You see, when you have children, you quickly learn that life doesn't come with a manual. It's a lot like flying…

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Dec. 17, 2023

A Mother's Unconventional Approach to Raising Resilient Kids

In the grand scheme of life, we often find ourselves pondering what legacy we wish to leave behind. 🌏 A mother, a wife, a daughter, a friend - these are roles that define us, but they are not all that we are. We are also warriors, fighting battles unseen by…

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Dec. 16, 2023

The Inspiring Story of Priscilla Escueta

In the six seasons of the Color Success Podcast, we've had the privilege of hosting many remarkable guests. 🎙️ Yet, one stands out in particular - Priscilla Escueta. Priscilla, a dear friend and colleague, was diagnosed with multiple cancers. 🎗️ Her years-long battle was a testament to her strength and…

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Dec. 15, 2023

A Powerful Lesson from a Friend's Last Words

In the grand scheme of things, work is about harmony, not balance. 🎎 It's about recognizing that our lives are a symphony of different priorities - work, family, connection, self-care. 🎵 A dear friend and colleague of mine, Priscilla, who sadly passed away before my book was published, taught me…

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Dec. 14, 2023

Breaking Mental Health Stigmas Through My Podcast

In "Cancel the Filter," I openly discuss the temptation of chasing numbers and monetization. 💰 But I share stories that reveal the deeper purpose behind my choices. Yes, we all need to make a living and support our families. However, for endeavors like the podcast, it's vital to remember our…

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Dec. 13, 2023

How This Podcast Unexpectedly Transformed My Life

Flexibility is the key theme in "Cancel the Filter." Life often surprises us by taking unexpected turns, like my podcast journey. Initially, I had low expectations, but it turned into 6 amazing seasons. ✨ Embracing change allowed me to connect with an incredible team and make lifelong friends. 🤝 Let's…

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Dec. 12, 2023

Why Your Birthing Plan Might Not Go As Planned

In my book, "Cancel the Filter," one of the stories close to my heart revolves around pregnancy, a truly unique journey. 🤰 TMI, but there's a moment when my water started leaking while I was at work, juggling my career and studies. I hesitated, just like many of us do,…

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Dec. 11, 2023

How Sharing Your Story Can Connect Us All

In the pages of my book, I've woven a narrative that speaks to the heart of a working mother of color. 📚🌸 Yet, it's not just her story. It's a tale that echoes across cultures, across identities, and across experiences. 🌏 The beauty of our lives lies in the intersectionality…

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Dec. 10, 2023

Unmasking the Political Power of Comic Books

In the realm of comic books, there's a rich tradition of championing democracy over autocracy and battling prejudice. 📚 Take for instance, the iconic image of Captain America in his debut issue, landing a punch on Adolf Hitler's jaw, months before the U.S. joined World War II. 🥊 Or consider…

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Dec. 9, 2023

Understanding the January 6th Insurrection Through Comics

In the words of Alan Jenkins, the power of comic books is undeniable. 📚 They have a unique ability to transcend age and ideology, reaching out to everyone from the 8-year-old kid to the 80-year-old grandparent. It's no wonder that two-thirds of Hollywood's biggest films are rooted in these graphic…

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Dec. 8, 2023

How Can We Improve Our Prison System?

In the wise words of Alan Jenkins, we find ourselves in a society where prison and jail are significant parts. 🏛️ We must question, are these systems truly focused on rehabilitation? Or are they merely punitive measures, devoid of any real transformative potential? 🤔 Alan suggests that we need to…

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Dec. 7, 2023

Is Incarceration the Only Solution?

Is it a crime, or is it a cry for help? 🤔 Alan Jenkins brings up a thought-provoking question. He challenges us to rethink our approach to dealing with individuals who may be better served by mental health resources and psychosocial support, rather than the traditional path of incarceration. 🏛️…

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Dec. 6, 2023

Is Our Criminal Justice System Flawed?

Alan Jenkins, a renowned advocate for social justice, recently shared some thought-provoking insights on the criminalization of certain activities. He questioned the rationale behind incarcerating individuals for acts that are increasingly being seen as non-harmful, such as marijuana use. 🌿 In an era where many states are shifting their stance…

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