In my book, "Cancel the Filter," I delve into the complexities of being a working mother of color. One of the key themes I explore is the concept of finances. 💰 How do we impart the value and understanding of money to our children? More importantly, how do we perceive…
Writing "Cancel the Filter" was a journey that took me back in time. I found myself sifting through years of journal entries, revisiting emotions and experiences from over a decade ago. It was like stepping into a time machine, reliving those moments all over again. The challenge wasn't just in…
In the grand tapestry of life, my family is the thread that weaves it all together. 🎎 I count my blessings every day, and at the top of that list is the man I've been journeying through life with since high school. Together, we're raising two beautiful daughters, our little…
Ever had one of those days where you feel like you're the only one juggling the chaos of motherhood and work? 🍼👩💻 Well, let me tell you, you're not alone. I've been there, and I've got some stories that will make you laugh, cry, and most importantly, feel seen. In…
In my book "Cancel the Filter," I delve into my personal journey of navigating the workplace while pregnant. 🤰 There's a prevailing misconception that performance is judged without full knowledge of the circumstances, and this isn't exclusive to pregnancy. Now, as a supervisor, I've adopted a more empathetic approach. 🌱…
I've been doing some thinking lately, and I've realized that there's a lot of misinformation out there about different groups. 🌏 Living in America, I've seen it firsthand. People often say, "Don't look at race," but as a woman of color, I can't help but notice the difference in how…
I remember a time during my college days, when I was traveling with friends and my husband. We had decided to venture off the beaten path in Cabo, and found ourselves in a local restaurant that had been recommended to us. 🍽️ As we were enjoying our meal, a woman,…
Navigating the labyrinth of life, we often stumble upon the discomfort of boundaries and the fallout that follows. 🌏 It's akin to indulging in an ice cream bar occasionally, harmless in moderation, but detrimental when it becomes a tub-a-day habit. 🍦 Similarly, a casual glass of wine to unwind after…
In life, we often find ourselves at crossroads, where we must make the tough decision to either hold on or let go. 🌿 Sometimes, it's about a person who, instead of adding value, brings more harm to our lives. We might find ourselves giving more than we receive, and it's…
In my journey of writing "Cancel the Filter", I've had the privilege of hosting numerous guests on my podcast, "Color of Success". 🎙️ One topic that often surfaced was the concept of boundaries. I'm no expert, but I've learned a thing or two about setting boundaries from these conversations. 📚…
Finding your tribe can feel like navigating a labyrinth. 🎋 But the key, I've found, is to start with what lights you up. 🏮 Whether it's a social media group or a local event, there's a community out there that shares your passion. Volunteering, striking up conversations, these are the…
In the pursuit of harmony, I've discovered a few truths that I'd like to share with you. 🌸 Firstly, let's debunk the myth of perfect balance. It's an illusion, a facade that we're better off without. Life is a constant ebb and flow, and that's okay. One of the most…
Life has a funny way of shifting our perspectives, doesn't it? 🎭 I never anticipated the profound impact that becoming a parent would have on my life and work. You see, when you have children, you quickly learn that life doesn't come with a manual. It's a lot like flying…
In the grand scheme of life, we often find ourselves pondering what legacy we wish to leave behind. 🌏 A mother, a wife, a daughter, a friend - these are roles that define us, but they are not all that we are. We are also warriors, fighting battles unseen by…
In the six seasons of the Color Success Podcast, we've had the privilege of hosting many remarkable guests. 🎙️ Yet, one stands out in particular - Priscilla Escueta. Priscilla, a dear friend and colleague, was diagnosed with multiple cancers. 🎗️ Her years-long battle was a testament to her strength and…
In the grand scheme of things, work is about harmony, not balance. 🎎 It's about recognizing that our lives are a symphony of different priorities - work, family, connection, self-care. 🎵 A dear friend and colleague of mine, Priscilla, who sadly passed away before my book was published, taught me…
In "Cancel the Filter," I openly discuss the temptation of chasing numbers and monetization. 💰 But I share stories that reveal the deeper purpose behind my choices. Yes, we all need to make a living and support our families. However, for endeavors like the podcast, it's vital to remember our…
Flexibility is the key theme in "Cancel the Filter." Life often surprises us by taking unexpected turns, like my podcast journey. Initially, I had low expectations, but it turned into 6 amazing seasons. ✨ Embracing change allowed me to connect with an incredible team and make lifelong friends. 🤝 Let's…
In my book, "Cancel the Filter," one of the stories close to my heart revolves around pregnancy, a truly unique journey. 🤰 TMI, but there's a moment when my water started leaking while I was at work, juggling my career and studies. I hesitated, just like many of us do,…
In the pages of my book, I've woven a narrative that speaks to the heart of a working mother of color. 📚🌸 Yet, it's not just her story. It's a tale that echoes across cultures, across identities, and across experiences. 🌏 The beauty of our lives lies in the intersectionality…
In the realm of comic books, there's a rich tradition of championing democracy over autocracy and battling prejudice. 📚 Take for instance, the iconic image of Captain America in his debut issue, landing a punch on Adolf Hitler's jaw, months before the U.S. joined World War II. 🥊 Or consider…
In the words of Alan Jenkins, the power of comic books is undeniable. 📚 They have a unique ability to transcend age and ideology, reaching out to everyone from the 8-year-old kid to the 80-year-old grandparent. It's no wonder that two-thirds of Hollywood's biggest films are rooted in these graphic…
In the wise words of Alan Jenkins, we find ourselves in a society where prison and jail are significant parts. 🏛️ We must question, are these systems truly focused on rehabilitation? Or are they merely punitive measures, devoid of any real transformative potential? 🤔 Alan suggests that we need to…
Is it a crime, or is it a cry for help? 🤔 Alan Jenkins brings up a thought-provoking question. He challenges us to rethink our approach to dealing with individuals who may be better served by mental health resources and psychosocial support, rather than the traditional path of incarceration. 🏛️…
